We can't wait to celebrate with you.

We want you to be able to fully relax and enjoy your wedding day. That's why our team of day-of coordinators spends more time face-to-face listening to the vision for your wedding than we do sitting behind a desk. 

 
  Sandi Tate, Co-Owner & Day of Coordinator   As a co-owner of Silver Oaks, Sandi and her husband Ron, are the heart and soul of the venue. Sandi is a recently retired physician and has loved spending more time with her new granddaughter! As a master organizer, Sandi is invaluable during the wedding day and is known for keeping things running smoothly and on time. When she's not coordinating weddings, Sandi loves to decorate (you can thank her for the beauty of the bridal suite), spend time with family and friends, and travel.

Sandi Tate, Co-Owner & Day of Coordinator

As a co-owner of Silver Oaks, Sandi and her husband Ron, are the heart and soul of the venue. Sandi is a recently retired physician and has loved spending more time with her new granddaughter! As a master organizer, Sandi is invaluable during the wedding day and is known for keeping things running smoothly and on time. When she's not coordinating weddings, Sandi loves to decorate (you can thank her for the beauty of the bridal suite), spend time with family and friends, and travel.

  Andrea Wiele, Day of Coordinator   Andrea is from St. Louis and has grown up here all her life. She attended the University of Missouri-Columbia and got a degree in Special Education. Aside from teaching, Andrea loves being organized and assisting in the planning and coordinating of small details, which is what brought her to join the Silver Oaks Chateau team. Since watching her parents, Ron and Sandi, build their dream of Silver Oaks Chateau, she wanted to be involved in the wedding industry. Not only is Andrea detail oriented, but she is also passionate about ensuring wonderful and stress-free weddings. She loves being a part of a team that helps carry out all the little details of a bride and groom's special day. When she is not planning fabulous events, you can find her spending time with her husband, being active in Kirkwood with her golden retriever, relaxing at the family farm, and being with her wonderful family.

Andrea Wiele, Day of Coordinator

Andrea is from St. Louis and has grown up here all her life. She attended the University of Missouri-Columbia and got a degree in Special Education. Aside from teaching, Andrea loves being organized and assisting in the planning and coordinating of small details, which is what brought her to join the Silver Oaks Chateau team. Since watching her parents, Ron and Sandi, build their dream of Silver Oaks Chateau, she wanted to be involved in the wedding industry. Not only is Andrea detail oriented, but she is also passionate about ensuring wonderful and stress-free weddings. She loves being a part of a team that helps carry out all the little details of a bride and groom's special day. When she is not planning fabulous events, you can find her spending time with her husband, being active in Kirkwood with her golden retriever, relaxing at the family farm, and being with her wonderful family.

  Todd Ondr, Estate Manager   Todd is a St. Louis native, loving husband, and father of two. If you've ever admired the chateau patio in 110 degree heat wave and wondered, "How do all these plants and flowers still look so fresh and beautiful?!", the answer is all Todd. After spending many years in sales and management, Todd is glad to be spending more time doing what he loves the most - being outside and working with families! Hard working and always willing to go the extra mile, Todd makes every couple who walks through our front doors feel like they're at home.

Todd Ondr, Estate Manager

Todd is a St. Louis native, loving husband, and father of two. If you've ever admired the chateau patio in 110 degree heat wave and wondered, "How do all these plants and flowers still look so fresh and beautiful?!", the answer is all Todd. After spending many years in sales and management, Todd is glad to be spending more time doing what he loves the most - being outside and working with families! Hard working and always willing to go the extra mile, Todd makes every couple who walks through our front doors feel like they're at home.

  Alyssa Breuer, Event Manager   With her own wedding date blocked off on the Silver Oaks calendar, Alyssa has joined the team as our Event Manager. Alyssa is a St. Louis native and proud dog mom. She graduated with a degree in Communication Studies from the University of Central Missouri and between school and her professional life has gained years of experience in every stage of event execution. Her need for organization and eye for detail are sure to set you at ease on your big day. She spends her off time painting, reading, working on her new Ballwin home and attempting to convince her beloved fiance to take in more pets. Alyssa strives to push your ideas to reality and is confident your unique story will shine here at Silver Oaks Chateau.

Alyssa Breuer, Event Manager

With her own wedding date blocked off on the Silver Oaks calendar, Alyssa has joined the team as our Event Manager. Alyssa is a St. Louis native and proud dog mom. She graduated
with a degree in Communication Studies from the University of Central Missouri and between school and her professional life has gained years of experience in every stage of event execution. Her need for organization and eye for detail are sure to set you at ease on your big day. She spends her off time painting, reading, working on her new Ballwin home and attempting to convince her beloved fiance to take in more pets. Alyssa strives to push your ideas to reality and is confident your unique story will shine here at Silver Oaks Chateau.

  Indra Russell, Day of Coordinator   Indra discovered her love of event planning during the process of planning her own wedding. Since then, she has gained over 10 years of experience, planning events in some of St. Louis's historic and most beloved landmarks. She is excited to work with our clients at Silver Oaks on unforgettable celebrations and her keen attention to detail will help to assure your event is flawless. Indra lives in St. Louis with her husband and their two adorable children. She enjoys cooking, reading, activities with her family, taking dance classes and is also active in her family's winery & microbrewery.

Indra Russell, Day of Coordinator

Indra discovered her love of event planning during the process of planning her own wedding. Since then, she has gained over 10 years of experience, planning events in some of St. Louis's historic and most beloved landmarks. She is excited to work with our clients at Silver Oaks on unforgettable celebrations and her keen attention to detail will help to assure your event is flawless. Indra lives in St. Louis with her husband and their two adorable children. She enjoys cooking, reading, activities with her family, taking dance classes and is also active in her family's winery & microbrewery.


We can't say 'thank you' enough to the friends, families, and supporters that helped make Silver Oaks Chateau a reality. Without you, our crazy dream of building a French chateau from the ground up never would have come to life. Since breaking ground in 2014, we have been continually amazed to see one idea grow from a blueprint to a reality - a place of so much joy and significance for hundreds of families.

Silver Oaks Chateau has become our second home and we are so glad to share it with you. 

-Ron and Sandi Tate